How do you see yourself, and how would you like to be seen?

I see myself as a misunderstood vessel  with a misinterpreted soul. I am a loner who loves people (in my own way).

My silence just means that I am waiting on God-Then I move. I would like to be known or seen just as I am- An imperfect person  who is just “forgiven”! I am a body overflowing with thanks!

How do you define your purpose in life?

My purpose in life is to show kindness to a unkind world-  -give unexpectedly and not expect anything in return. Serve Others-My ultimate goal is to try to leave a situation better than I found it (always)!

What are three events that helped to shape your life?

My Adoptive mom’s passing- it made me realize instantly that I am my own team-No players. Just  me-No one to rely on.


Inheriting Money- It allowed me to relocate to another state (reset). Provide a better life for my daughter & I. 

Finding a Solid Church with a Godly Foundation -A  Pastor who is real- Receiving God’s Uncompromising  Word then applying it to my life.

What woman inspires you and why?

I am inspired by many women especially the underdogs-women  who people  wrote off- but God wrote  down. The  overlooked women! The  single women-The uninspired, the unloved women -but yet I am also moved by the woman who never gives up- the no isn’t an option type woman-The real behind my back women! College degrees and accolades are great and that shows success

but how do you treat people who can do nothing for you ? Makes me adore you more!

Are there any assumptions about women that you would like to change? Why?

People assume that all women are weak-which is NOT true ! Women are strong and able to do it all. But they shouldn’t have to! We are designed to be a help meet. Not a burden bearer!

Insecurity and Low self esteem is not our birthright- Love Is in  our pedigree!

What do you believe will be the biggest challenge for the generation of women behind you?  

Our young women don’t know what worth really means-they equate worth as value. Worth involves how God designed you-HE doesn’t make junk. Value = monetary gain.  Don’t let others determine your worth! Look for the potential in people as God sees the potential in you-reciprocate the love! When you do gain wealth-teach others as well. Introduce family members on how to obtain it( generational wealth!)

As a Woman of Valor, what advice would you give to your younger self and do you follow this advice now?

Keep God first. Family Second- Protect your credit like a blank check. Save 20% of everything you make-Rainy days come! Sow seeds of positivity into your fellow queens & kings-everyone is fighting a silent battle. When you can- “Pay It Forward” God Sees It! Obedience  is better than sacrifice! I try to follow these hidden treasures but at times  fall short- I am a work in progress-pray with me and for me!